February 21 2021
Topic: Honesty , trust

Joseph & Mary

Speaker: John Holderby

Matthew 1:18-21 (NIV) This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. 19 Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. 20 But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”
 
Big Idea: Trust is necessary to relationships to Function and Thrive!
 
Openness – Being open is a willingness to share your concerns and excitements with others and when we do that we are essentially inviting them to be part of our life.
 
“The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.”
 
“Honesty Is the foundation for trust in a relationship”
 
Honesty is the quality of always speaking the truth and being totally authentic, straightforward, and transparent in our words and actions. It involves a few key practices: never lying, never hiding the truth, and never purposefully omitting or misdirecting people from the truth.
 
How Do We Build Honesty?
  1. Be consistent
  2. Don’t commit if you can’t
  3. Make communication a top priority
  4. Avoid being judgmental